Monday, March 21, 2011

"Introspect for Retrospect":A couple of days makes a world of difference!

3/19

I first want to start off by thanking everyone who has been keeping up with my blog. I realize that I have not been writing in it as frequently as I would like or as I was when I first started but thank you. As I am traveling to these beautiful locations around southeast Asia and engaging in activities with my school, I often think about what I would be doing had I not 3 years ago walked into Dr. Legget's office or even gone to Morgan. How would things be different had I not played sports in college or if I had moved to North Carolina after graduating? What would I be doing right now if I had not just returned from Bali, Indonesia for a week long vacation? How would my life be different if our mother had not passed away? What would have happened if my father, family and community were not there to raise my two sisters and I? I recently returned from Tanah Lot temple outside of Ubud, Bali. While amazed at the majestic sunset in the background of this pristine and setting, I realized that without those things happening or not happening maybe I wouldn't be here to appreciate this. Everything happens for a reason and I those different circumstances shaped me to who I am today. THANK YOU

The last two weeks have been veeeeeeeeery interesting to say the least. Sometimes I feel like I live in a animal clinic with the animals or lizards that pass through the apartment. I've seen sooooooo many different types of new species of animals and heard so many different bird calls that I feel like I could be a Zoologist and have a second degree. The ETA's and mentors had a meeting at Sekayu waterfalls. Sekayu is amongst the heavy tourist attractions in the state of Terengganu. I went fishing for the first time in a long time and made my own pole. That's probably why I didn't catch any fish.  The next week would prove to be even more of an adventure.

When I booked my ticket to go to Bali almost two months ago, I would never have thought that I would have the experiences that I have been through. I set out Wednesday night on the trip with the "intentions" that everything would go as planned. Firstly, the bus ride was about 7 hrs to KL which was not bad because we got to sleep on the ride. Once we arrived at PWTC at 5 am, we met up with my friend who agreed to pick us up and take us around before taking us to the airport before our flight. We arrived in Surabaya, Indonesia at midnight and decided to take a van to the ferry in Banyuwangi, Indonesia. What we did not anticipate was the ride to the point. We fell asleep shortly after renting the van. When we woke up that next morning, we still had 3 hours to go at 8 am. Our driver, who knew no English, and had been driving all night decided to stop 2 hours out at his friend's house to take a break and so we could eat. After that we drove 2 hours to the ferry point whee we would catch it to the Bali island. Once we got to the island, we caught a bus that promised the ride would only be 30 mins to Denpasar where we would then catch a taxi another hour down the road to Ubud. WELL.....it actually turned out to be one of the longest, most beautiful, scenery enriched, non air-conditioned, and tightest traveling trip of all time. The trip lasted 4 hours but we drove along the coast, passed rice patties, and passed through lush jungles! When we arrived in Ubud, we checked into our hostel and was elated at how nice it was. The group couldn't wait to go out as that's something that is not as readily accessible here in KT. The spot to be at was called The Laughing Buddha. Jazz, Funk, Salsa, and Groove all were being played by a multitude of  different musicians. The next day we decided to take a tour around Ubud and surrounding areas so we visited The Elephant Caves, 4 different temples and saw Mount Kintamani. All were spectacular. My favorite being the last temple, Tanah Lot, about 20 mins out of Ubud. When we pulled up to the temple it was about 6 pm so the sun was just over the cliff that we were now approaching. As we walked to the edge of the cliff, we embraced a sunset over the water and reflected off this temple that stretched out on a inlet. This has to be one of the top 10 most beautiful sights I have ever seen. It was simply......a blessing. The way the orange, yellow, pink, and reds reflected off the water was undoubtedly gorgeous. We spent most of our time at the temple taking pictures and reflecting. The next day we traveled to Kuta, Bali.

 Kuta was only about an 30 mins away from our first 3 nights in Ubud but it was night and day compared to Ubud. Kuta is the more touristy area as oppose to Ubud which is more cultural relevant. Beaches, beaches, reggae music, parasailing, interesting hostel, AND lost itouch just about sums it alllll up. When we arrived it was afternoon and our first order of business was to get a hotel or hostel for the night. We found this spot close to the beach and soon realized what we were paying for was location not quality. The only thing that worked there was the price. Nevertheless, we got the room then decided to go to the beach and enjoy the sun and water. That night we met up with two other ETAs who were also on the trip and we all went out to a Reggae spot and had a BALL!!! It's nothing like reggae music. It changes your whole perspective on everything. One of the things that I decide I wanted to do even before i went on the trip was that I wanted to go parasailing. I went to Tanjung Benoa Beach which is known for its watersport activities and went parasailing. What a experience! Scary at first but you get used to it. I had a wonderful time. That night we went BACK to the reggae spot and again had a wonderful time. The next day I woke up and looked around for my itouch to charge it. I couldn't find it...."ok think think think...where did I have it last???!?!" I must've went through the hostel 4 times looking for it. Last night, after I came back from being out I went back to the mart to use the itouch there and remember walking back with it. NOW, I don't have it. The logical explanation is that I dropped along the way of only about 100 m from the mart to our hostel. BUT I know better to be that careless with an electronic. Where could it have been? I retraced my steps that next morning atleast 5 times hoping that it fell on the ground or grass and that all of Bali that night walked right past it unnoticed. BUT I know better than that also. I always try to look at the positive side of things so I keep telling myself that atleast it wasn't my wallet or passport because then THAT would be a problem. It could always be worse. The next couple of days I met a lot of wonderful people who were from Bali and surrounding islands and we had long talks about everything. That night not to break suite, Kelley, Elizabeth and I went back to the reggae spot. I saw some of those same people I met at the beach earlier and we all had a great time.

Even though I lost the itouch, it was times like this past week that make life that much better. Good food, interesting adventures, beautiful scenery, and great company! THANK YOU

PICS!!!
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Wednesday, March 2, 2011

NEW PICS!!

SMAASZA #1 and 2011 English Extravaganza Week #1

3/1/11

SMAASZA BOLEH!!!! SUKAN CHAMPIONS!!!! CHUKAI, KAMAMAN, TERENGGANU!!! FEB 25-27 2011!!!!

This past weekend I was invited to attend the district sports competiton in Chukai,Kamaman, Terengganu. I was soooooo glad that I went as SMAASZA was crowned overall champions of all and both boys and girls activities. We left on that Thursday and returned on Saturday afternoon. Congratulations to all of SMAASZA's participants and coaches. I am proud to be apart of such a rich tradition. The finals will be held in Besut, Terengganu next Tuesday-Thursday and will include all teams of Terengganu.

Today 3/1/11, I held my first activity of my 2011 English Extravaganza Week #1. Students who were interested in participating were instructed to arrange themselves in a group of 5. Each form was to only have 3 groups so that there would be 90 students for each activity. Well I didn't quite get those numbers for the first activity but it's ok. So the week includes 3 activities. The first, Relay While You Relay, was held today. Nine teachers were selected to aid with the game and their task was to ask 3 students questions. See Diagram below. Questions would range from: name 5 words that have the letter P as the second letter to make a complete sentence out of the word interpret. Now along with questions there were also riddles and funny/silly acts that were to be answered and performed. For example, what has teeth but does not eat or what has two hands and goes round? Answer: Zipper, comb, bike chain and a clock. The silly act would include sing your favorite song for 10 secs or dance to imginary music for 10 sec. VERY VERY VERY FUNNY to watch!!! When the student got the answer correct, the teacher would give the student a piece of a puzzle. 3 of the students would go through the "maze" and come out with a total of 9 puzzle pieces. Each puzzle piece had a part of a phrase or sentence on the back of it that the students had to arrange in the correct order. The 4th student would be the designated arranger of puzzle pieces and the 5th person would be the designated speaker for the group when they presented the correct answer to me. Whoever completed the task in the shortest amount of time won a FREE trip with me to somewhere "fun". These trips included KL, Hot Springs in Besut, National Forest, Genting Highlands(theme park), go-karts trip, picnics at Lake Kenyir, and a host of other locations and attractions. IT WAS A SUCCESS!!!! The students and the teachers that helped both had a wonderful time. Both said they learned a lot and had a great time while doing so. Those were just a couple of the goals. I wanted to promote interactions and I got interactions. This activity fostered creative thinking skills, communicative skills, and confidence in speaking in English. I got positive feedback from some of the teachers also who were in attendance to support. I also had a great time and learned a lot about some areas that I need to focus on moreso than others. This was a great activity and glad that I had the support of the SMAASZA teachers and staff and also three of the ETA's that came to show support and help: Leigh, Billy, and Megan. It went so well in fact, that we were treated out for a celebratory dinner at Secret Recipe by Madam Zalina, the Co-curricular leader at SMAASZA. THANK YOU teachers and staff and the three ETAs; also....THANK YOU Teacher Zurina for being helping me out with organizing everything regarding the 2011 ENGLISH EXTRAVAGANZA WEEK #1
Stay tuned for the next two activities!!!

DIAGRAM OF RELAY WHILE YOU RELAY

x      x       x


x      x       x

^      ^       ^
x      x       x

G1   G2   G3


x=Teacher with question
G1,2,3= group of students

* Students progress through maze in the direction of arrows


HAPPY BIRTHDAY DADDY!!!

Thank you for being the man that you are. As I grow older and realize more and more responsibility and become wiser in my actions, I sometime wonder what's next. I don't have to look far to find the blueprint on how it should be done. I can only hope that I can take what you have shown and continue to show and build upon it for lessons in my life. Enjoy today with the family and continue to touch others in a positive light and be blessed.

 Love you,

  Dakari

"I want blue eyes, they're perfect!"

3/1/11

I am slipping on this blog. It just seems that everytime I have some free time something else demands my attention. Malaysia Boleh, is certainly becoming the slogan of the trip so far. There has been many cases where I have been involved in something and I would think this is not happening or I don't believe this is about to happen. I mean only here can I be called and compared to Usain Bolt, President Obama, and Will Smith. My school bus driver wants me to race him....with his bus and me running. He is convinced that I could win. Malaysia Boleh. Most people that I have met here have asked me if President Obama and I are distant cousins or is that a family member of some sort. OR.........if I could talk to Obama about letting that person get a green card. Finally Will Smith, if I had a dime for everytime someone mistakenly called me Will Smith or said I look like him, I would fly Will out here and show them that there is a difference between him and I. All of these experiences are funny and a learning. Funny because me being compared to these people because of the way I look to me is like comparing spades with hearts. It's also a learning experience; it's interesting to see what people are exposed to and to whom and what they relate to what they are exposed to. I'm sure a lot of it can be attributed to the lack of non-malays that are in KT and that they see. Another reason is because of the way the media portrays people or what is consisdered "right and wrong". Point in case, I was talking to a lady the other day and we were talking about science. Well I wanted to talk in Bahasa Melayu and she wanted to speak in English. She stated that she didn't want me to speak Bahasa to her because she wouldn't be able to learn English from me. I stated that's how I feel also with Bahasa. She then told me that they have a saying in Terengganu that went roughly like "if you speak English your eyes will turn blue." Interesting.....I wonder if that was true. At any rate, I asked her would that be a good thing or a bad thing? She stated that "it would be a great thing if she had blue eyes and that women especially would love blue eyes."
"So why are blue eyes considered great or why are they sought after?" I figured it was some logical explanation to her statement so "curiousity" and I wanted to know.
"Having blue eyes means that you are special and that's perfect....well...it's hard to explain and it's a women thing so you wouldn't understand" she responded or didn't respond. Now I've been here for 2 months and that was the first time that I had heard anything like that. I asked her why not green, or brown(the color of her and I eyes), gray, or black. It's very interesting to hear someone say that they think having blue eyes makes your more special than not having a blue colored eyes. I got the sense that she was influenced in thinking that having blue eyes makes your special or more appealing. Now here she is with a child, late twenties, and successful and she thinks that the only thing missing from her life is blue eyes. Perspective is appreciated through understanding. Maybe if she understood that how she is now, the way that she was created, her genes that were passed down from generation to generation, is a unique only to her maybe...just maybe her perception would change....maybe.